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What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

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Is this OK?

Would you object to your spouse hugging another person even if you knew it would arouse him/her? Yes
34
8%
Would you object to your spouse hugging another person even if you knew it would arouse him/her? No
56
13%
If your spouse offered to let you kiss someone to whom you were attracted, would you decline? Yes
65
15%
If your spouse offered to let you kiss someone to whom you were attracted, would you decline? No
24
5%
If your spouse asked you to join him/her in watching porn, would you accept? Yes
62
14%
If your spouse asked you to join him/her in watching porn, would you accept? No
29
7%
Would you let your spouse have anonymous phone/webcam sex with someone if you could somehow be involved? Yea
32
7%
Would you let your spouse have anonymous phone/webcam sex with someone if you could somehow be involved? No
54
12%
Would you ever consider soft-swap swinging? Yes
35
8%
Would you ever consider soft-swap swinging? No
54
12%
 
Total votes : 445

What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby ChristyBA75 » Tue Feb 15, 2011 10:05 pm

The responses to the poll in part two indicate that there are more sexual liberals on here than the forums would suggest. I didn't want to be provocative, but I'd like to extend the questions by one more standard deviation and see where the agreeable responses trail off.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby ChristyBA75 » Thu Feb 17, 2011 8:21 am

OK, so who are the others on here who are fine with webcam sex and swinging? And I'm surprised at the acceptance of porn and having your spouse get aroused by physical contact with another person. christyba75@gmail.com
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby zookie » Mon Apr 04, 2011 11:47 pm

I'm just going to say that I am completely against bringing ANYONE else into your marriage bed. That means pictures, videos, fantasies about others, and real people. The scriptures and the prophets are clear (please don't ask me to quote anything, I'm not that into a discussion about it) that that is a sin and if you are living the law of chastity, you are not bringing anyone else into your marriage bed.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby PsychWard » Wed Apr 01, 2015 8:52 pm

Kissing on lips? No. Kissing a cheek? Maybe.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby Bryan_LDS_husband » Thu Apr 02, 2015 3:01 pm

ChristyBA75 wrote:OK, so who are the others on here who are fine with webcam sex and swinging?


Swinging? No.

Watching porn together? Yes. I've already suggested it, but she said no. And I'm okay with that.

Sex cam with strangers? Ermm.... I answered yes, but in reality, it's one of those "Fun to think about but... probably might not do it, unless she was in favor it, which I know she never will be, but if she was on board, then I'd try it once and see how we felt after." If I had a wild-n-crazy wife who was like, "Come on and let's try it!!!" I would for sure. But if that same wife said, "Come on and lets' try swinging" I would draw the line.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby be64 » Thu Apr 02, 2015 4:22 pm

I voted yes on viewing porn together but my wife would never ask me to do it so it's a mute point.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby KSSunflower » Thu Apr 02, 2015 7:18 pm

Mute or moot?
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby be64 » Thu Apr 02, 2015 7:22 pm

KSSunflower wrote:Mute or moot?

That's what I was trying to decide.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby mariabronn » Thu Apr 02, 2015 10:55 pm

Moot!
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Re: What do you consider okay? Way out there, part 3.

Postby OkieDokie » Fri Apr 03, 2015 12:26 am

But maybe if he asked, his wife would give him the silent treatment ..
In that case mute might be ok. ;)

But I reckon, since some be sod busters , we mote at times not be a recollecting them thar fancy words no good.
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