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Which would you pick and why?

Postby KSSunflower » Wed Oct 28, 2015 12:11 pm

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"It is not sex that gives the pleasure, but the lover." ― Marge Piercy, “Sensuality is not a sexual invitation, it’s a depth invitation.” ― Lebo Grand http://mormonsexualdialogue.boards.net/, http://www.chatzy.com/24691190515294
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby Jgtrs » Wed Oct 28, 2015 3:52 pm

All of the above?
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby KSSunflower » Wed Oct 28, 2015 3:56 pm

You think they are all equally important? For discussion sake, pick the one you feel is most important, and why.
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby Ofy53 » Wed Oct 28, 2015 4:10 pm

I would say love... true love. Like the kind that Wesley and Buttercup had.

I would think that with genuine, true love, that sex, time and trust would become a part of that relationship. If one of them is lacking, then it is much easier to work through trials in a marriage when there is a strong love between the couple.

The man/testosterone in me would say Sex..., but the wisdom in me would need to go with Love.
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby whmxn » Wed Oct 28, 2015 4:45 pm

I'd also go with love but I think it's tough to separate them. If you have the love in your relationship you will make the time, build the trust, have sex, etc. Without the love the others become more difficult. Still, that love needs to be honored and nourished with time, trust, sex, etc. or the love will fade. Real love takes work, IMO.
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby OkieDokie » Wed Oct 28, 2015 5:20 pm

The most important was left out Honesty
Then trust, then time, then love, and distant last place sex. In fact , i believe a relationship can be successful without sex at all.
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby KSSunflower » Wed Oct 28, 2015 5:23 pm

You think there should be an order and progression to it, okie? Does being first mean most important?
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby OkieDokie » Wed Oct 28, 2015 5:25 pm

Yes i believe so

maybe commitment should be in the list also
But since i have never been married and rapidly closing in on 65, perhaps i am just full of BS
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby Jgtrs » Wed Oct 28, 2015 7:24 pm

Well, LOVE, obviously.

As the Beatles said, "All you need is love...." If love is sufficient, the other things might take care of themselves... maybe?

But, I guess it depends on what type of relationship you're talking about.

I kind of think it's a silly question.

Maybe better forced choice options would be:
Touch, Affirmation, Time, Service, Gifts
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Re: Which would you pick and why?

Postby KSSunflower » Wed Oct 28, 2015 8:10 pm

Okay, Jgtrs. It was all in fun to create conversation but I see your point. I see the things you listed more as preferences or individual needs, not universal to everybody.
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