How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby Lovey » Thu Jun 12, 2014 1:26 pm

sex exactly 1.5 times per week. I say exactly because it has been 172 times since we started counting on 4/4/2012, which was 799 days ago according to my handy spreadsheet. That date roughly corresponds to when I started TRT. I wasn't keeping track before then, but I would guess (and DW would confirm) it was a semi-arid sexual desert of 1.5 times per month.
:lol: Exactly how much better are you feeling about your spouse since you upped your sex life to 1.5 times a week rather than 1.5 times a month? What happened that brought your wife to enjoying sex more often?
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby dadof6 » Thu Jun 12, 2014 6:29 pm

TRT = Testosterone Replacement Therapy

Forgive the thread topic diversion.

Our problem before was really my problem of hypogonadism. Two years ago, almost on a whim, I got testosterone levels tested, and was flabbergasted to find I was near the bottom of the testable range. DW and I both think it is a miracle we ended up with six kids. It is possible I've been low all my life. I was definitely more of a cold fish, low on the affection scale, for all those years.

It is a night & day difference for us, in many ways, not just libido. Mood, energy, happiness, depression, etc. are all related to testosterone and other hormones. I was probably also mildly depressed all those years as well.

I do worry now that I am dependent on modern medicine for my basic well-being, and having a job with Rx coverage. T is a controlled substance, and I haven't yet figured out a way to stock it in our year supply of necessities. One 10ml vial lasts me about three months and costs about $100. Dr can only write Rx for one or two vials at a time.

So again, in our case, infrequent sex was definitely my issue, not DW. I am eternally grateful for her patience during those sexual desert years....
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby Afam » Sat Jul 12, 2014 10:45 am

31, 5 we have sex two times a day seven days a week unless one party is not around
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby be64 » Sun Jan 11, 2015 6:54 pm

I somehow missed this thread.

50 years old, married almost 27 years and have sex 16 times per month. I'm surprised how much sex people here are having. I guess that's an indicator that those who participate here are sex crazed, or maybe it's just that people who have a lot of sex are more likely to respond than those who don't have much sex.
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby azpeach » Sun Jan 11, 2015 11:09 pm

37 & 34. 15 years. 3 times a week
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby One Step » Mon Jan 12, 2015 2:00 pm

35 & 31. 11 years. 5 times a month
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby UnequallyYoked » Thu Jul 14, 2016 2:34 pm

UnequallyYoked wrote:55, 9 and five times since last Labor Day weekend.

Update: 57, 11 and we have had PIV 10 times in the last three years. I have all but given up even hoping for that to improve.
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby jack.murray386 » Thu Jul 14, 2016 2:57 pm

56 & 52. PIV once a week, other things couple times a week.


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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby Big D » Thu Jul 14, 2016 3:42 pm

42 years old
19 years married
Average about 15 times per month. 3-4 times per week.


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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby Deusdictum » Fri Jul 15, 2016 1:04 am

37, 10, and about 1x per month


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