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How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby bigdude » Mon Feb 04, 2013 12:14 pm

ChristyBA75 recently started a thread asking how old each of us is and how long we've been married. The results have been pretty interesting.

I think the results would be even more interesting if I amplify the question and add something that I am curious about: How many times a month do you have sex? It will be interesting to see what patterns emerge...

So the questions are:
How old are you? How long have you been married? How many times a month do you have sex?

I'll go first:

60, 40, 0.
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby HighDriveMormon » Mon Feb 04, 2013 2:55 pm

32, 9, and as often as I want.

Usually 5-6 times per week but sometimes 2-3 times during busy and stressful weeks and sometimes 7-10 times when life permits. Once my wife learned to have 2-3 orgasms per session, and have them within just a few minutes of starting, she began to want and initiate sex more than I do. If I jump in the shower and she has the opportunity to join me, she almost always will, and I make it well worth her time, occasionally not having one myself. If we have plans to snuggle, watch a movie or go out on a date, the lingerie goes on and she looks for every opportunity to sneak in sex. We went from a every day of the week when first married, to 2-3 times per week for several years, to back to an every day of the week in the last few years based on helping my wife learn to love sex, feel confidence during sex, learning to relax during sex, and doing everything I can to please her and give her O's. She comes first is truly great advice for improving one's sex life!
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby beachdreamer » Mon Feb 04, 2013 3:34 pm

52 25 30+

Early in our marriage my wife was not very into sex. She enjoyed sometimes but put me off quite often. So much of our marriage was probably closer to 8-10 times a month.
A few years ago she had a bit of an awakening. Sine then she is fine with daily or twice daily for me. She doesn't turn me down now unless very tired or some other reason. So she says yes, but she may participate at various levels depending on whether she is up for an O herself. Thus she says yes but it may be for a hand job, shower, etc., and sometimes OS. Like HDM's wife, she has become more able to enjoy sex and wants it herself much more than when she was younger. So the numbers for her having an O I would guess about 15-20/month.
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby ninesevenof » Tue Feb 05, 2013 1:50 am

60, 40, 8 to 15 times per month, a litte more when school's out, since dw drives a bus.
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby JustGettingBy » Tue Feb 05, 2013 9:26 am

50+, over 25, and 3 times a month (maybe 4 when I am lucky)
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby laughingivories » Tue Feb 05, 2013 1:46 pm

29, 4, 3-5 times per week depending on schedules. 3 kids under 4 yrs old, hubby working full time and going to school full time all add up to not much time to ourselves and when we find the time, sometimes snuggling and talking can be just as intimate because we are so tired! Although we just moved into our first house last week and it has a deep jetted tub big enough for two.... exhaustion has not yet trumped the tub every night. Lol.
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby mariabronn » Tue Feb 05, 2013 1:55 pm

I am jealous, of your new tub, Laughing!

Sounds like you and hubby have a hot thang going.
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How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby ChristyBA75 » Tue Feb 05, 2013 2:44 pm

37, 15, and 15-20 times a month.
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby OkieDokie » Tue Feb 05, 2013 4:35 pm

62, never married, intercourse three times between 1978 and 1979, once in 1980, once in 1981, then one last time in 1982...if I remember correctly that is.

I could not resist the temptation to post again. :?
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Re: How Old, How Long Married, How Often Sex?

Postby bencrisby » Thu Feb 07, 2013 6:09 pm

33, 10, sex 3-5 times a week. It is feast or famine because I travel for work.
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