What do you consider okay? Part 3

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What activities do you consider okay within an LDS marriage?

Yes, to sex outdoors
153
20%
No, to sex outdoors
3
0%
Yes, to being nude in public (i.e. clothing optional places - beaches, spas, etc. where no sex is involved)
87
11%
No, to being nude in public (i.e. clothing optional places - beaches, spas, etc. where no sex is involved)
64
8%
Yes, to reading a sex manual, where there may be either drawings or photos of genitals and/or people nude.
144
19%
No, to reading a sex manual, where there may be either drawings or photos of genitals and/or people nude.
8
1%
Yes, to talking to a very close friend, or family member, about your sex life
110
14%
No, to talking to a very close friend, or family member, about your sex life
39
5%
Yes, to wearing lingerie in the bedroom as part of the foreplay/sexual encounter
155
20%
No, to wearing lingerie in the bedroom as part of the foreplay/sexual encounter
0
No votes
 
Total votes : 763

What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby Ofy53 » Wed Feb 02, 2011 4:37 pm

This is part three of the "what is okay" surveys. What do you feel is acceptible for an LDS married couple to do? Please answer yes, or no, to each of the questions.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby zookie » Tue Apr 05, 2011 12:53 am

Yes to sex outdoors. But for me personally, make sure there's no chance of being seen!!!

No to nudity in a public place. Well, I went into a hot tub nude once, in a spa for women only. That was a little strange for this good LDS girl, but I quickly adjusted and it was no big deal.

Sex manual with pictures and drawings okay. But I'd rather it NOT have lots of nude pictures in it. Or perhaps nudity in a more clinical sense. I think we have to be careful about things deteriorating into porn. I've only read one sex manual, though, and it didn't have any pictures at all. (I found it in my GRANDPARENTS bedroom. It was a good one!! Hee hee!)

Yes to talking to a close friend about sex. I talk about sex (tactfully) a lot. It's my favorite subject.

Yes to lingerie. Except my husband doesn't care about it, so I don't wear it.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby Ofy53 » Fri Apr 08, 2011 1:26 pm

Zookie, how long have you been married. For the first several years, I was okay if my wife didn't wear any lingerie, since I just loved seeing her naked. Now, I like to see her in lingerie, since it is a new look and I find it sexy and very appealing.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby zookie » Sun Apr 10, 2011 1:09 am

Ofy53 wrote:Zookie, how long have you been married. For the first several years, I was okay if my wife didn't wear any lingerie, since I just loved seeing her naked. Now, I like to see her in lingerie, since it is a new look and I find it sexy and very appealing.


We'll be celebrating 24 years in a few months. :)
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby Ofy53 » Fri Aug 24, 2012 12:15 pm

If you haven't taken part in this poll, please help us out. This is an open poll with no expiration. It is fun to see the honest attitutes in these anonymous polls...
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby mariabronn » Sat Aug 25, 2012 12:09 am

Sex outdoors sounds like fun, as long as you don't disturb the wildlife, and as
long as the wildlife doesn't disturb the sex.

With discretion, nudity anywhere is ok as long as it's safe for everyone.

As a guy I am very visual so I think pictures, illustrations, etc. are all helpful.

I am curious Zookie, what would constitute tactful sex talk versus tactless sexual conversation? If I want to share an idea or answer a question of a close friend about sex and i feel they will be respectful, it's fun and fine to talk about
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby shouldibe » Sun Aug 26, 2012 5:26 pm

Amen to what Sanchiro said.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby mashman108 » Mon Aug 27, 2012 3:50 am

I'm interested that 47 said yes (versus 37 no) to being nude in public. I'm interested whether over half the people here have actually done that (eg nude beach, clothing optional resort or hot springs etc?)
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby PsychWard » Wed Apr 01, 2015 8:26 pm

I feel that public nudity is a no in mixed gender places. I feel that only spouses, medical personnel, or extenuating emergency circumstances should a person be seen naked by the opposite gender.
Smart people learn from their own mistakes. Wise people learn from the mistakes of others. Fools don't learn.
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Re: What do you consider okay? Part 3

Postby UtahAl » Wed Apr 01, 2015 10:43 pm

I have been to nude beaches / resorts several times with my wife, and clothing optional hot springs without her. It is kind of scary/exciting at first, but pretty ho-hum after a while. Hey, we were all born naked, it can't be that big a deal. In fact, I suspect the only reason we pay attention to it is because we never see it.
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