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When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2019 6:52 pm
by 7550
Curious to know at what point will lube like KY Jelly be required on hand/fingers for wife to be comforable? obviouslly this question is for the sisters.

Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2019 7:47 pm
by KSSunflower
We don't usually use lube for hand or finger stimulation. If she doesn't self-lubricate soon after begin you might want to use a little bit.

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Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Wed May 29, 2019 1:19 am
by NeverGiveUp
never here, but we probably should on occasion as it's needed at times. We usually just take that as a reason to change it up.

Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Thu Jul 04, 2019 2:26 am
by gwrider
We use lube every time we have sex, almost without exception, not because my wife needs it but because it makes things so much better. We use virgin coconut oil because it has a nice taste and smell to it, it’s naturally anti bacterial, we are not using condoms, and it makes sex better. When we were first married we used ky jelly, leave that to the doctors, it’s terrible for sex. Over the years we have tried highly rated water based lubes or silicone based lubes, some of those are pretty nice. However nothing beats coconut oil in our experience, use it all over each other as part of foreplay,it Makes all the sensation better.

Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Thu Jul 04, 2019 9:47 am
by Twue_Wuv
We haven’t used lube by itself for many years, because my wife lubricates rather easily. However, sometimes, during her period, she is dry and we’ll put on a lubricated condom to help.


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Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Mon Jul 22, 2019 7:50 am
by Mrs J
IMHO, you can't have too much lube. There have been times I thought I didn't need any and DH applied some and the sensation sky rocketed. Slippery sex is great sex.

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Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Mon Jul 22, 2019 12:37 pm
by Mateopourtoi
We rarely use it. My rule is she always has to have one or more orgasms before I penetrate. That has worked out well for us.

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Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Fri Jul 26, 2019 6:45 pm
by NeverGiveUp
Mrs J wrote:IMHO, you can't have too much lube. There have been times I thought I didn't need any and DH applied some and the sensation sky rocketed. Slippery sex is great sex.

Interesting... Hadn't considered that.

Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Sat Jul 27, 2019 11:41 am
by KSSunflower
Mrs J wrote:IMHO, you can't have too much lube. There have been times I thought I didn't need any and DH applied some and the sensation sky rocketed. Slippery sex is great sex.

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I think it depends on the person. Slippery sex can be good but sometimes I lose sensation with too much lube.

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Re: When is lube needed ladies??

PostPosted: Sat Jul 27, 2019 4:13 pm
by NeverGiveUp
Sounds like I need to experiment and see for us how it is.