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hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby conflictedhusband » Tue Dec 18, 2018 12:08 pm

What would be the hottest fantasy thing your spouse could do, something that would be completely unexpected, not prior discussed, but would really get you turned on? In my case, having my wife suggest giving me oral sex in a public/semi-public place, dressing room, beach, back yard and then talking dirty would be the number one, with second place suggesting we have sex in the same room with another couple also having sex. Watching porn together and acting out the scenes would also be hot.
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hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby hotrod1 » Tue Dec 18, 2018 12:17 pm

I think it would be fun to go to a boring movie with her wearing a skirt. we sit in an area a little bit secluded and she goes to the restroom and returns handing me her sexy thong. The rest of the story is up to you.


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Re: hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby Mrs J » Tue Dec 18, 2018 10:06 pm

conflictedhusband wrote:What would be the hottest fantasy thing your spouse could do, something that would be completely unexpected, not prior discussed, but would really get you turned on? In my case, having my wife suggest giving me oral sex in a public/semi-public place, dressing room, beach, back yard and then talking dirty would be the number one, with second place suggesting we have sex in the same room with another couple also having sex. Watching porn together and acting out the scenes would also be hot.


Hey conflictedhusband, I'm conflicted about your post. Are you saying the mere suggestion of said fantasies would be enough to delight and surprise you? Or are you suggesting acting out said fantasies? (At which point I respectfully ask you to post in the Non-Trad section *instead* of here.) Sorry to rain on the parade.

To answer your question, the hottest surprise I could get from DH would be for him to be really forceful and demanding, taking complete control. Not full-on Dom, but more of the attitude of his complete desire of me to the exclusion of all else. Swoon.
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Re: hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby freehike » Wed Dec 19, 2018 12:13 am

In staying with Mrs J direction. One of the hottest fantasies with my wife that actually happened was to have sex outdoors. I had been the instigator a few times and we had a great time. My fantasy was that she plan something and actually do. Well it happened at Lake Powell. She was out riding a wave runner and came back and said she wanted me to go for a ride with her. So I climbed on and she took off, found a little inlet spot and then surprised me saying her real reason for getting me away was so we could have sex. We had sex on the seat of the wave runner on the lake. It was so sexy and fun. The chance of being seen was there which made it exciting to be doing something so naughty like that.

Just one fantasy that actually became reality. There are a few others that maybe I'll share later. Or if this gets into the non traditional then I have a few to share there. lol
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Re: hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby Bryan_LDS_husband » Sat Dec 22, 2018 10:47 am

I love having fantasy conversations with my wife. We have classifications for them:

- Things we would legitimately love to try some day
- Things that push the envelope of remaining TR worth but would still be fun, and we might actually do it if the opportunity ever presented itself
- Things that would be fun but for sure would NOT be TR worthy, that we will never do because of that, but we might otherwise consider if being TR worthy was not an issue
- Things that are fun to keep purely in fantasy-land and that we would not actually like doing in real life, but sure are fun to think about

I'll share just one that my wife shared with me from the last category: She said she's oddly captivated by the idea of going to an orgy party where there is a lot of open sex, and me watching her have sex with another man.

And just to be clear, again, that falls into the "would not want to ACTUALLY do it, but fun to think about" category. But dang! When she told me that, you can imagine how I reacted! The sex that followed was fun!
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Re: hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby Bryan_LDS_husband » Sat Dec 22, 2018 10:48 am

Mrs J wrote:To answer your question, the hottest surprise I could get from DH would be for him to be really forceful and demanding, taking complete control. Not full-on Dom, but more of the attitude of his complete desire of me to the exclusion of all else. Swoon.


Wonderful! And, what is he waiting for?
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Re: hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby Bryan_LDS_husband » Sat Dec 22, 2018 10:51 am

freehike wrote:Well it happened at Lake Powell. She was out riding a wave runner and came back and said she wanted me to go for a ride with her. So I climbed on and she took off, found a little inlet spot and then surprised me saying her real reason for getting me away was so we could have sex. We had sex on the seat of the wave runner on the lake. It was so sexy and fun. The chance of being seen was there which made it exciting to be doing something so naughty like that.


Love it!! And man, would I ever enjoy something like this with my wife!
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Re: hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby Bryan_LDS_husband » Sat Dec 22, 2018 10:55 am

conflictedhusband wrote:In my case, having my wife suggest giving me oral sex in a public/semi-public place, dressing room, beach, back yard and then talking dirty would be the number one, with second place suggesting we have sex in the same room with another couple also having sex. Watching porn together and acting out the scenes would also be hot.


These all sound fairly tame. But can you clarify one thing? Is your fantasy to have her suggest oral sex in a public/semi-public place? Or is your fantasy to actually have oral sex in a public/semi-public place?

Watching porn together and acting out the scenes would also be hot.


Would your wife be open to that? Or is this something that will forever remain a fantasy?
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Re: hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby herhusband » Tue Dec 25, 2018 6:39 pm

What would be very hot and exciting would be for her to suggest that she wear a short skirt with no undies all day at a theme park and giving me oral sex at every chance in dark rides like Haunted Mansion, Pirates of Caribbean, etc.

For me that would be a huge fantasy, but then she actually did that. Her ideas. I’m super grateful and feel humbled.
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Re: hottest fantasy surprise from spouse

Postby herhusband » Tue Dec 25, 2018 7:15 pm

I’ve seen some people in this forum discuss the idea of having naughty fantasies and whether or not they dared go that far with their spouse. I endorse sharing every possible fantasy with each other.

I’m not talking about actually going so far as making the naughty fantasies reality. I’m talking about the hesitance some struggle with of whether or not to fantasize in forbidden realms for fear that that might lead to the temptation to act it out.

If you struggle with that perhaps this story will help...

We’ve done it. We have fantasized about everything. And we even found ourselves having a threesome and a foursome. Three men on her and two women on me. I used Adobe creative suite tools with rollobrush tech to blend scenes together. You have to keep the tripods in the exact same position without moving them as you film two halfs of the same scene.

She wore a long wig that changed her hair color and different lingerie with each scene so that after I blended the scenes it looks like two beautiful twin women with me. One sitting on my face facing the other straddling me. My hands are reaching up all over both of their breasts. The two of them making out and rubbing their boobs together while I make love to both of them. She really got into the acting part and enjoyed it immensely.

The finished production is definitely amateur grade special effects. You can totally see where the scene splits about 90% of the time. But it’s not extremely abrupt and sometimes it’s practically invisible, maybe about 10% of the time. But it’s only for an audience of two and we’re not picky.

It sets quite a stage as we kick back and watch our fantasies play out on our large screen in the bedroom. She always has a vibrator in one hand and me in her other hand while watching. Then when she’s finished climaxing you can imagine how desperate she is to have me finish the job missionary style.

So I made a film like that that’s male-centric, the one I just described, and I made one female-centric just for her. in that one, there is actually three of me working on her.

But here’s my main point. As we contemplated following through with the plan to film and make these videos I worried that perhaps it would be so realistic that it would become a desensitization that would move us towards making that fantasy a reality.

We made those films about three years ago. We’ve probably watched each one at least a couple of dozen times. They still are very provocative and very stimulating to watch. In fact, we just watched “Her naughty fantasy” film just last night for the first time in months.

Now, the idea of actually acting these scenes out in real life holds far less sway now than it did back then when I was worried about whether to proceed.

It’s kind a like… “We’ve been there, we’ve done that— and aren’t we lucky that we still have our TR.” Sort of like, we had our cake and ate it too, but we didn’t have to gain the weight.

Whereas, if I had not proceeded, I think it would still have a much greater amplitude of a forbidden allure.
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