What do you think/fantasize about?

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What thoughts or fantasies do you entertain while having sex or masturbating?

I only think of my spouse while either having sex or masturbating.
9
13%
I only think of my spouse while having sex, but not always when masturbating.
10
15%
I usually think of my spouse when having sex or masturbating, but sometimes I think of people of the other sex that I know.
15
22%
I usually think of my spouse when having sex or masturbating, but sometimes I think of people of the other sex that I don't know.
10
15%
I usually think of my spouse when having sex or masturbating, but sometimes I think of people of the same sex that I know.
4
6%
I usually think of my spouse when having sex or masturbating, but sometimes I think of people of the same sex that I don't know.
3
4%
I usually think of other people besides my spouse of the other sex when having sex or masturbating.
6
9%
I usually think of other people besides my spouse of the same sex when having sex or masturbating.
4
6%
I usually only think of myself when masturbating.
6
9%
 
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What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby ILMW » Sat Jul 30, 2016 12:40 pm

Lately, I've had a number of discussions with people about what they think about when they masturbate or have sex. It's been interesting to learn about what they will or will not entertain in their minds while physically having sexual feelings. What will you allow?
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Re: What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby cmfray » Sat Jul 30, 2016 11:45 pm

I think of a lot of things and people during both sex and m. Spouse is always in the fantasy somewhere and the other people of both sexes are always made up people not based on anyone in particular, and never resemble anyone I know.
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What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby KSSunflower » Mon Aug 01, 2016 3:39 pm

During sex I focus mostly on the sensations. In my mind, I'm often picturing my ideal sexual self in sensual situations.

During masturbation, I have a difficult time with fantasizing. I do better with interaction.
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Re: What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby likesnatural » Mon Aug 01, 2016 11:38 pm

During sex, I always tried to focus on my wife. A couple of time i fantasized about someone else, and my wife stopped having sex almost immediately. There is something about sexual karma I think.

During masturbation, I fantasize on almost everything sexual both men and women. That is the beauty of it because it is so wide-ranging and the sky is the limit.
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Re: What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby Jgtrs » Wed Aug 03, 2016 4:35 am

I sometimes fantasize but nothing very specific. Most of the time I'm just hanging on in the wild ride.
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Re: What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby bulbi1152 » Fri Aug 12, 2016 3:00 pm

When I masterbate I think about my wife masturbating she said she didn't sex with her I try to think about pleasing her

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Re: What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby MeanStreak » Fri Aug 12, 2016 11:04 pm

I tend to think about more BDSM related fantasies when masturbating or maybe when I'm having trouble cumming. I don't usually think about one specific person, though

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Re: What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby sigmund » Fri Jan 20, 2017 5:27 pm

When masturbating, if I'm alone and not watching porn (something DW is okay with these days), the thoughts that get me off most effectively are actually not fantasies, but memories, memories of the naughty things my wife has done over the years, much of it recorded on video.

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Re: What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby ILMW » Sat Jan 21, 2017 5:43 pm

You're a lucky man, Sigmund, having those videos!
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Re: What do you think/fantasize about?

Postby Itsme675 » Tue Feb 07, 2017 5:44 pm

KSSunflower wrote:During sex I focus mostly on the sensations. In my mind, I'm often picturing my ideal sexual self in sensual situations.

During masturbation, I have a difficult time with fantasizing. I do better with interaction.

I am working on focusimg mostly on the sensations. I imagine sex ia better when that is the case.

I rarely masterbate. When I do I fantasize about my wife.

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