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Women: How often do you view porn?

I actively avoid porn.
11
39%
I look at porn once or twice per month
9
32%
I look at porn weekly
4
14%
I look at porn daily
4
14%
I am addicted to porn
0
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Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby UtahAl » Wed Jan 13, 2016 11:50 pm

Women: How often do you view porn (to include erotica)? Men have a separate poll.
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Re: Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby Quest » Thu Jan 14, 2016 4:34 pm

It's about 2-3 times a week that I watch it.
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Re: Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby UtahAl » Fri Jan 15, 2016 10:27 pm

I used the term "actively avoid porn" because it is just about everywhere, in some form or fashion--it is virtually impossible to not see it. So the choices were to intended to show either that I am actively trying not to see/use the stuff, or I make the choice to indulge at ____ frequency. I left it intentionally open as what is porn, and as to whether you feel guilt about it or not (have come to some sort of peace with the decisions).
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Re: Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby lm_77479 » Fri Jan 22, 2016 4:47 pm

I may view it 2-3 times in one week or just a couple in a month. Really varies for me. But I don't go to extreme lengths to avoid it.
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Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby jodiflnr » Sun Jul 31, 2016 6:20 pm

No need! I've watched, I've used
No need, Hubby overused which caused me to lose interest. A vibrating dill always does trick, & imagination is an awesome gift!


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Re: Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby herhusband » Thu Oct 06, 2016 5:59 am

My wife views "porn" almost every night!!!

It's part of our regular sex life. But I put quotes around it because we don't consider it to be REAL porn because we're always watching videos that we've filmed of ourselves and edited with music, etc... We normally set up at least two cameras and sometimes 3-4 so we can enjoy going from one view to the other. Editing is a hobby and I've spent way too much time making our "Sacred Memories." But not really though because we have no regrets.

We're up to about 85 highly produced spicy memories that are about 25-30 minutes long. We've got 3 or 4 videos of us on a beach, in a cabin, outdoors in a castle garden in Europe, Cruise ship balconies and cabins, Anniversary Inn with lots of different costumes, in different rooms over the years, lots of great video of us in our bedroom or all around the house when we're the only ones home, videos of our virtual sex via Skype edited with other cameras on both sides of the connection when one of us is traveling, and lots of SeXcations, Sex in cars, blowjobs while boating, etc... I could go on. Love it!!!

We're so grateful for these. We've had sex thousands of times but we only have memories captured from possibly 100 times. Those are the memories we treasure and we think, "Wow! how much of our sex would we remember if we hadn't done this. We've had a lot of amazing and blessed sex but only a few stand out that aren't recorded on video. So yeah, my wife watches "porn" almost every night. We take turns picking.

And it's all encrypted behind a firewall with a crazy password that's about 11 digits long. One must be careful. We had close calls when we first started but very few now as we've learned to stick to a specific routine or set of rules when it comes to viewing, moving, coping, backing up, etc.. our "Sacred Memories." And thank goodness for iPhones. They have great video cameras and we each have most of our library hidden on our phones.
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Re: Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby Swish » Thu Oct 06, 2016 8:56 am

How do you have the library hidden on your iphone? Or how do you encrypt the videos with a password? My wife and I only have a few of these "sacred memories videos" ourselves now, but just have them saved onto a SD card that we have locked up. I Would love to know what programs or apps you use to keep these all protected. I have no idea how to make a firewall or encrypt anything.
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Re: Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby herhusband » Tue Nov 22, 2016 3:10 am

KY calculator for the iPhone. find it in the app store. It looks like and functions like a normal calculator. You enter your code and push = and it asks for another password, or your thumbprint.

I have a macbook pro. There are a couple of ways.

1. You can burn any folder into a virtual disk by using Disk Utility (free with all Macs). Open Disk Utility and go to the file menu and choose new/burn a disk image. You can use a long password and then anything within the folder is encrypted and no one can open it without the password. But you can't add very many new items to that before you have to burn a new one.

2. The best way I've found is to set up a subordinate user account on your Mac that becomes your main day-to-day work account. That's where everything is except "Sacred Memories." Your Master Account is your Sacred Memory account. Choose a very secure password and your set. Everything behind that password is protected. You do it this way because if your Sacred Memories were not in the Master User Account your kids could reset your password and get it. My kids all know the password for my computer, but it's the password for the Subordinate User Account (day-to-day) so they can't make any major changes to my computer without my help.

Number one tip: Concentrate. Focus. Have a routine, or protocol, that disallows you to accidentally leave something viewable by anyone else. It needs to be either encrypted, behind a firewall password, or permanently deleted every time immediately with no exceptions. Then follow those steps EVERY TIME no matter what else is going on, if you're going to be late, etc. Take time to take care. It's really not that complicated. You just have to care deeply and ask for guidance. It's important so you'll be guided if you ask sincerely.

For instance. When I copy videos from our main collection to our iPhones I do it via AirDrop. But that puts these Sacred Memory videos right into the main photo library of my iPhone. I have to then go into the KY Calculator account and import from iPhoto library. The App (KY Cal) then asks me if I want to delete the videos from my main library. It does delete them but not from the "Recently Deleted" folder. I always leave the program right then and delete from the Recently Deleted folder on my iPhone. There have been a few times when I've somehow missed this step and didn't delete the videos from Recently Deleted or from the main library. Well, if you just copied a dozen videos that were made over a 5-year time frame they will be placed into your library in chronological order. I have more than 20,000 photos and videos on my phone. So I have to literally go through the entire library do find those dozen videos to delete them.

A few times I didn't do this perfectly and there were times when I'd randomly find one of our Sacred Memory videos right there in my library. These close calls are rare but that's why I emphasized to:

Concentrate. Focus. Have a routine that disallows you to accidentally leave something to chance. Then follow those steps EVERY TIME no matter what. It's really not that complicated. You just have to care deeply and ask for guidance. It's important so you will be guided if you ask sincerely.
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Re: Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby Swish » Tue Nov 22, 2016 2:41 pm

Awesome advice. Thanks a ton
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Re: Women: How often do you view porn?

Postby herhusband » Sat Mar 31, 2018 3:34 pm

Another follow-up on keeping Sacred Memories safe. Recently the Apple OS incorporated the iCloud desktop. I did not realize that every folder on my desktop was now uploaded to my iCloud account. With the Celebrity sex tape leaks, it freaked me out to see our entire collection backed up in my iCloud account. So I deleted it. Little did I realize that that also deleted our whole collection from my desktop on my computer too.

I had a backup hard disk to replace the files. Thank goodness. I ended up having to go to my System Preferences/iCloud/Advanced to decide what on my computer gets backed up.

So, on my subordinate day to day account, I have everything being backed up automatically whenever I'm online. But on my master account, I have unselected (System Preferences/iCloud/Advanced) my desktop folder and other folders where sensitive materials are kept. I don't trust Apple or anyone else to have possession of these Sacred Memory files. So we never email them, etc. They only reside locally on my master desktop that's protected by a very cryptic password.

BTW, we now have about 85 highly produced films. It's so nice to go back to old favorites or watch something more recent. Happy editing:-)
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