Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

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Vibrator Use By Active LDS Women?

I am a women and use a vibrator at least weekly
19
17%
I am a woman and use a vibrator at least monthly
2
2%
I am a woman and use a vibrator less than monthly
5
4%
I am a man and I think/know my wife uses a vibrator at least weekly
39
34%
I am a man and I think/know my wife uses a vibrator at least monthly
22
19%
I am a man and I think/know my wife uses a vibrator less than monthly
28
24%
 
Total votes : 115

Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby beeny » Sat Dec 21, 2013 3:39 am

:cry:
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby Qgeorge » Sat Dec 21, 2013 3:43 am

Momgyver wrote:When I tell him, he grins, and asks if I was successful to O. I think it makes him horny.


That would be the reaction I would expect.
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby Qgeorge » Sat Dec 21, 2013 3:46 am

Too few characters
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby Jgtrs » Sat Dec 21, 2013 4:38 am

My wife had three O's yesterday. Two with the help of a vibrator while I was gone. And the third with me in bed that night. She loves her toys. She loves me better, but she does enjoy her toys.
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby LatterDay Marriage » Sun Dec 22, 2013 8:55 pm

JustGettingBy wrote:You didn't give an explicit choice for either sex to say "no use of toys"


Or the option of only using sex toys (vibrators anyway) on you spouse, not on yourself.

There are more sex toys than just vibes.
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby ILMW » Sun Jan 05, 2014 10:40 am

I have a theory that if wives felt free to use vibrators solo when their husbands aren't around, they'd become hooked on orgasms, which may result in more sexual interludes with their sex-starved husbands. On the other hand, they may begin to prefer their favorite vibrator over their husbands' penises, hands and/or mouths. Anyone have any experiences or insight? I am contemplating encouraging my wife to use a vibrator when I am not around, but am not sure.
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby mariabronn » Sun Jan 05, 2014 8:18 pm

ILMW wrote:I have a theory that if wives felt free to use vibrators solo when their husbands aren't around, they'd become hooked on orgasms, which may result in more sexual interludes with their sex-starved husbands. On the other hand, they may begin to prefer their favorite vibrator over their husbands' penises, hands and/or mouths. Anyone have any experiences or insight? I am contemplating encouraging my wife to use a vibrator when I am not around, but am not sure.

All I can ask is Why would any grown woman have to ask for permission from their husbands to enjoy some quality masturbation time, with toys or otherwise? What causes women to feel restricted or prohibited from enjoying their own bodies? Who imposes such mental shackles on all these wives?
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby KSSunflower » Sun Jan 05, 2014 11:44 pm

It is just being considerate. Of course nobody has to ask permission but they do because they care how their spouse feels about it. Or maybe they aren't sure if it okay so they seek guidance from the Patriarch of the family, the husband.
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby mariabronn » Mon Jan 06, 2014 12:06 am

I get it, kss. I guess it just hit me oddly, as if ILMW was stating that as if the wives were seeing guidance about riding a surfboard versus going with the torpedo (re the red monthly tide).
I guess my suggestion would be for ILMW to get a few toys, lay them out on the bed with a note 'Please enjoy responsibly, in my absence!'
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Re: Adult toy use by active LDS Couples

Postby OkieDokie » Mon Jan 06, 2014 1:26 am

Surfboard, torpedo, red tide.... I guess that is the same as aunt flow visiting.
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